Sometimes...

Hey there bunnies! Back with a short little post. Somebody recently asked me "Rachel why are you always so confident? How i wish i was like you." Okay, first things first, i don't think i'm confident actually.. i do have insecurities, i am still human. But honestly, why do we always compare ourselves to other people? Is that human nature? Why can't we just be happy with who we are? Why can't we not care what other people think of us? Sometimes i just sit and think about things like that. Everyone has insecurities, but one can choose to have their insecurities written on their faces and be affected by their insecurities every minute and every second or they could just keep their insecurities hidden and face life with a smile on their face. Which is actually better? I don't know.

Its kind of sad to see what society has actually fabricated what is deemed as "good looking". Girls are looking at pictures of other girls only to dream of becoming that person in the picture. One of my favourite quotes would have to be "Be yourself, because everyone else is taken". People are abusing themselves just to become something that they aren't, just to be accepted into society. Why is it so difficult to just be yourself? Even i have difficulties trying to actually be myself. Sometimes it just sucks to always compare yourself to other people. And you question yourself, "why can't i be as pretty as her?" "Why can't i be as slim as her?" "Why can't i be as popular as him?". These thoughts are extremely self destructive. Comparing yourself to that person and asking yourself these questions are not going to make you any more like that person nor does it mean a step closer to becoming that person. So why do we even do it? I'd like to believe its human nature. At the same time, everyone should love themselves just as they are. “Love yourself. Forgive yourself. Be true to yourself. How you treat yourself sets the standard for how others will treat you.”  also, “Encourage yourself, believe in yourself, and love yourself. Never doubt who you are.” 

Stop comparing yourself to others. I know, its not easy doing so but it'll make you feel happier. Trust me. Never try to be something you aren't! “Why are you trying so hard to fit in when you were born to stand out?” that's the quote i'll leave you guys with. Keep smiling, stay beautiful.

Much love, 
Rach xoxo

PS: If you guys have any questions for me just ask me right here: Ask Rachelluee  and i'll be answering some for my Q&A post!